Thank you for this honest and very relevent topic. It is absolutely possible that at some point you will not think about alcohol and just live your life. I liked one of the other comments that its a quiet graduation, in that everyone graduates to that state of mind at their own pace and time. There are those who have walked away from all of it, as you describe, never to think about it again. Then there are others who WANT to continue with the "hobby", as they are still enjoying it and need something from it.
When the day comes that you are no longer thinking about drinking, then you wouldn't be thinking about, or need to be participating in, recovery related activities. Make sense?