I caught him. Again.
Hello. I asked my RABF to join me on a vacation with my family. He had been sober for about 4 months. I knew it would be a challenge for him. Florida vacations are a trigger. My family drinks. I went off with my family and he went off with his daughter. I noticed that he slurred a little and was more talkative than he had been. I looked and found a bottle of vodka in his bag. He drank
more than a third of it. I confronted him
and he admitted it. I feel so sad for him. I totally empathize with his situation and he feels terrible. He’s a wonderful man but I I know I have to let go. Last time I gave in and took him back. We don’t live together. I just have to let go. I’m afraid I won’t be able to.