Originally Posted by
Iris828 
Yes, his house does testing. Are you thinking there is no hope for us to be together at the end of this?
I mean..there's no telling if "it's" going to work out..Your primary focus should be on yourself and YOUR happiness/peace of mind. Look into alanon and also the 'friends and family' section on here. It'd be wise to know exactly what you're up against. You didn't cause it. You can't control it. You can't cure it. This early on in the relastionship my advice is to RUN though. There's plenty of people out there that don't have this 'hang up' him and I have. I'm 18mo sober(minus 1 night),but I was a mental/emotional wreck for about a year. Look after you and let him look after him.