Originally Posted by
Tommyh 
our self seeking actions can also be not doing things we should have done and doing things we shouldn`t have done
I have never heard this before. This would've been extremely helpful for me on my self-seeking. But then how does that relate to harms and amends?
sometimes a lot of the not doing things we should have done is missed in modern day AA
Once I understand this more clearly, I am going to teach it to my sponsees. Thanks Tommy.