JJWinters, I was in your position a long time ago. I was head over heels for this girl. I did see the sign on our first but I thought it was just to cover up the jitters. We reallly liked each other. Fast forward 9 months later and I had to get out with my sanity and self esteem. Last I heard about her a few weeks later, she had put her brand new car in the ditch just like we had talked about. I left someone I really cared about but I had a huge burden lifted off my shoulders. it was one of the hardest decisions I have ever made even to this date. But it was the best decision I made because I was being dragged down with her. A couple of years later I met another girl whom I was doubly crazy about. We just celebrated 22 years of marriage. I am here because I became alcoholic husband. Go figure.