Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
You will learn to ignore the phone calls, and to keep to your schedule. Talk about the kids, when it's necessary only. It has saved my sanity. Other times, I just don't give in to speaking to him at all, and I text only.
Big hugs!
I have made it clear several times to only call me for emergencies when kids are with him. And to text me things regarding kids only. He never seems to keep to the boundaries I have set. It is so frustrating and draining. I thought after 2 years of being separated things would get easier but they haven't.