so he was to pick the kids up within 12 hours, and yet he needed to engage with you? “Oh Why didn’t you invite me, wish we were all together”. WTH? I am rolling my eyes for you, talk about denial, he is living in LaLa land. I agree with hopeful4, less is more, simply text, and keep subject matter to the kids. What is he going to do the day you do not answer his call? I see a meltdown in his future. He really believes he is still in control, he has yet to feel the sting of his actions.
It’s one thing to be the best co -parent circumstances allow, it’s another to continue to fuel his ego.