Originally Posted by
Atlantis 
Nata1980
I assumed you are divorced now? How has life been going for you? Do you have kids?
As for the rock bottom - you will know when you get there. Yes, have been divorced, have one child, life has been great. When separation happened, I thought I would have to go part time (XAH was stay at home father), but ended up getting a massive promotion instead, and better work/life balance to boot (because I needed it). Much better relationship with my son. Have full custody. You can read my past posts by clicking on my name
I hope you will find peace and serenity
keep posting - and reading peoples stories - this place made me realize that my story was not unique, and was a lifesaver.
XAH has been sober longer than he has been in years, and doing well with visits. So it was a win win for everyone.