I don’t know what state you live but in Virginia, “ LAWFUL CONTACT” is allowed by a judge on some restraining orders as long as the accused complies to the court order ( go to meetings, see a therapist, a psychiatrist and not do any drugs or drink, no threat to self harm; or threats or destroy property, etc...)
Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
how can you have a valid restraining order in place yet the person is living with and sleeping with you????