Originally Posted by wistrong

I agree that you should take this super slow! That being said, I know we are all here to offer support, but some of you guys are throwing this poor guy under the bus. My XA was a complete louse but at some point you have to trust again and some advice you are getting is coming from way in left field. I don't believe talking to his ex or assuming he is a shady liar who is hiding his own infidelities ......yada yada, yada. Take it slow see where it goes! Good luck you deserve a good guy, they are out there!