Originally Posted by
atalose 
You wait until he’s an official by law X.
Neither one of you are free – emotionally and lawfully to truly begin an honesty healthy relationship.
Not to be the pessimist but I see lots of potential red flags and you are only 1 month into getting to re-know this person you knew in high school and thinking about taking it to the next level.
I think slow it way down and allow more – much more to be revealed before investing further emotionally.
Atalose, I am going to continue to take things slow nothing physical has occured Just conversations, lunch, dinner and movies.
We have been dating for the last month but have been in communication since December. I'm not in any rush to get into a serious relationship. My divorce will be finalized in the next few months so will his. It gives up plenty of time to get to know each other more. It's easy to point out red flags. But I eventually have to move on.