Hi Cosima! Sounds like you have lots of decisions and choices to make. Glad you made the thread to sort through your thoughts and feelings. But the really great news is that you are sober and in a good state of mind to start putting your life in order! Hope you take some time to celebrate what you have achieved
The rest sounds like "real life" stuff--figuring out a career and relationships; taking a look at patterns from your childhood. All normal for your late twenties
Sounds like you're right on track for creating a life you love.