I remember my AXH always denying or trying to justify his stupid behavior. One night he got so drunk and peed in our laundry room in the laundry basket. Our sons saw him doing that. They told their dad what are you doing and he began to yell at them. I stepped him to try to get him to stop and he began to yell at me. The next day I told him what he did he had no memory of it. I told him he needed to apologize to our sons and he never didn't. Avoiding and denying is what alcoholics do best! You have every right to be upset and protect yourself and your child.