I agree. That is why I said I quit my job so I can control the car pool, meaning he is never in the position to drive the kids. I do it.
Originally Posted by
ScottFromWI 
Sorry to hear this Exodus. You can seek help for yourself but the situation with him driving drunk with children in the car crosses many lines that you need to deal with directly. He's endangering their lives, and if he's doing it on a regular basis you need to protect them from him. Is his job more important to you than the lives of your children?