Good thought. I just don’t do bars anymore. Family comes to town and some know not to bring beer. Alcoholic brother still does. Sadly I’ve closed that gap. If they aren’t into understanding I just can’t do it anymore , I can’t be close anymore. It’s not selfish that my health for my kids is more important than us being “ friends “. We’re still brothers but it pisses me off alcohol is always involved. I stopped going back home for holidays and such because everyone drinks.