It makes me want to tell her to run now before she invests too much and not to stay to long. I see me in her and I just want to cry b/c I wish I'd left years earlier.
It is tough watching others heading down a path I have previously tread.
I take solace in the fact that path I took, while rocky, was necessary to bring me to where I am today, which is light years away from previous places along the way.
What has worked for me in the past is to not tell others what to do, instead I talk about my life. What it used to be like and what it is like now, sharing my experience, strength, and hope. I sick to my experiences with the hope that it be helpful.