Hi, want to thank everyone for your replies. I was wavering and needed some “tough love” from you all to keep my resolve. You are right that there is no place for this in our home. And it’s not going to be any different this time. I’m starting to make plans for what happens if he starts drinking again. I called a lawyer today to set up a consult and looked into the Alanon schedule here. It’s just so sad that it has come to this but it is what it is. The safety of my kids and my sanity need to be my priority. Thank you 🙂