It will get worse and eventually he will revert back to drinking daily more than likely, he may doing that already and hiding it. They’re masters at that. Like PP said, read codependent no more. For me that was the start of really starting to understand how this really worked. Both the alcoholic and codependent part. He will blame you and make it your fault somehow which is normal. I’m not surprised you blew a gasket, but nothing you say or do will make a difference. As many have said on this forum, if our love could cure their addiction this forum wouldn’t exist and there wouldn’t be as many alcoholics. We have no control over what they do. And until they themselves see it as a problems nothing will change, until then it is just a problem for us....