from what I read..at 6 days you're waking up to the reality of your life without booze goggles on. SH8t's weird and can/does hurt. How long have you been married and why is the ML staying over so much? Kinda reads like you were drinking at the relationship issues,thus 'hiding' them with drink(you and her). Now she's OUT THERE until 3am!?!? come'on..I know us drunks can't be critical early on,but did she always do this when out with her friends? Because TRUST me!! Once we admit 'defeat/whatever' to our SO, they will use that info. I was sober 3mo and got back together with my now exAgf and she'd yell(in a bar) "you're an alcoholic!!" While she was blackout drunk and I'm drinking a water..it was crazy!
Watch your back(sobriety,finances,ect..) is all I'm saying..