Originally Posted by Dee74

I think an escape plan is mandatory for all occasions like this - even if you never use it, it's good to know its there.

If you're really worried, make your excuses at the church and skip the reception.

There are some good tips here too:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...val-guide.html (Social Occasion Survival Guide)

whatever you decide, have a good sober time

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