Offwego

Hi,

I have a little problem with my "crazy" ex, who I think has troubles letting me go for some reason. She sure still thinks of me, juding from her actions.

Little backround- We lived together for 2,5 years. I dumped her 6 months ago, after finding out she had cheated on me multiple times. Despite still being very much in love with her, I had to let her go. Cheating, atleast for me is the one thing that ends a relasionship in an instant. She now lives with one of the guys she cheated on me with.

Despite the fact she is now in a new relasionship, she keeps drunk SMS/Text-ing me angerly, stating that I ruined her....Saying that she hates me and I should stay the F away from her, or her new boyfriend will beat me up. - Totally unfounded claim, because I´m the one keeping distance.

After I blacklisted her phone number and blocked her from all my social media accounts, she resorted in sending me an e-mail...blabbering on about how much she loathes me. Day later she sent me an apology e-mail, saying she was drunk and is really sorry. I replied with silence.

I havent tried to contact her in over 5 months, last time was right after breakup when I wanted to get some of my stuff back that she held on to. She is the one trying to provoke some communication or reaction out of me. I think she has troubles letting go.

Alcohol had It's palce in our relationship, quite frequently we drank in the evenings. She often got quite drunk, so did I. She swears, that before she got into relasionship with me, she hardly ever drank, I supposevly ruined her and now she is unable to put the bottle down.

I on the other hand stopped drinking after brakeup, got into best shape of my life, looking 10x better than before. Maybe she has some regrets cheating on me? Who knows... But it sure sucks being randomly yelled at by a person who was the dearest not so long ago.

I have forgiven her for cheating. I don't hate her, but I dont want her back in my life eather. I know that deep down, I still have feelings for her (she was my first true love). For some reason she hates me, but I do belive she is the one who wronged me not vice-versa. I refuse to take any responsibilities for her drinking problem.

I think that maybe she hoped that I wouldn´t find out about her cheating, and wanted to stay with me. Or she was planning to dump me in the long run and I got there first, and she wont handle being dumped well.

Thinking that when I have to deal with one more of her drunken outbursts, I will screenshot it, and send it directly to her new boyfriend, asking him to calm her down. But something in my head tells me, that would´t be very wise....should not interfere with their relasionship..

I dont wanna hurt her or her new relasionship, I just want her off my back