Wow that was some first class quacking in his part... just wow.
They always say more will be revealed, and it keeps unfolding.
It sounds like you have been handling your daughter with the utmost kindness and grace. Protecting her, but giving her room to figure out for herself what kind of relationship she wants with her dad. If any. That can’t possibly be easy with all the crazy going on. But it’s already paying off, because your daughter trusts you.