That’s great. I went through something similar with Xabf. He wanted to talk about the relationship from his hospital bed. Everyday. Wanted to discuss the state of things, begging not to leave etc. This alone to me didn’t sound anything like the seriousness of recovery. I would not entertain those conversations either. At those moments they are only panicking in dealing with the very real consequences of their addiction rather than panicking that OMG FORGET EVERYONE RIGHT NOW I NEED TO DIVE INTO SOBRIETY!
I’m sorry your dealing with this. Sounds like you hit your bottom. I know for me it just got to the point where i couldn’t live another moment like this. I just couldn’t. I was dying in order to save his life. I knew that no matter what happened, I could no longer do business as usual. Best of luck.