Originally Posted by
hearthealth 
Welcome..... There's two different topics not being happy and divorce. I wouldn't bring up divorce until you're certain that you are .done.
Thank you both for the feedback. Great point that there are two different topics at hand. One is being unhappy. And it would absolutely be useful for me to practice my assertiveness skills and boundary setting, which I’m new to, by telling him what I’m not okay with. In a calm and peaceful manner.
I agree; the second issue is divorce and you are right. One should not bring that up until one is totally sure. I think in that case, it’s good to have the “I’m unhappy and here is why” conversation peaceably first and see where it goes. I am sending a big hug to you both for your kindness and courage. 🙏🏼