Originally Posted by
HardLessons 
Hi
If when you met him, he was already a heroine addict, you only know the addict - you don't know the real person at all. I only knew her as an addict. I never knew the real person.
I've read that for heroine addicts emotional growth stops at the point when addiction sets in. Emotional growth can only begin again after they are totally clean for a good period of time. Long term heroine addicts can be very immature.
Heroine addiction is very progressive & destructive.
I am sorry for your situation.
This is the honest sad truth. It's something I was in denial about, but i needed to hear this. Thank you. It's like he cant be reasoned with, and all he feels towards everyone is hate. If things don't go his way immediately he just blows up and won't listen to anyone. And it's not going to change unless he is clean for a long time...