Originally Posted by
Maudcat 
Hi, Rpb.
Welcome.
If you read around the friends and Family ly forums, you will see similar stories to yours.
Often heard from the addict:”
This is who I am. Why can’t you accept that?
You have done nothing to help me get better.
Why can’t you accept me?
I need you to help me get sober.
I miss you.
I love you.
Basically, he is blowing smoke, as all addicts do when it looks like their loved one is moving on.
Let him go. Don’t feel guilty. He has made his choices.
Yes! He's completely drained me. I have nothing more to give him. He doesnt respect my boundaries at all. I am so glad i found this website and forum. My family and friends hate me bringing him up because they resent him for how hes treated me. The crazy part is, he has put all blame on me and made ME feel like the ****** up person. When he has been the one who has been lying, and emotional abusing everyone that cares for him. Feels so good to vent to people that understand.