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Old 02-19-2018, 11:11 AM
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tomsteve
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teresa, we're very glad youre here. if he went in on thursday,its only monday. in all honesty, with these to things alone
a husband of 16 years who overdosed & died
My boyfriend of 3 months

im thinking you have some pretty deep unresolved issues- issues there are solutions for.
think about it- its been a couple days and now you want to write him a letter- a letter to someone youve been in a relationship with for 3 months.

and DR is spot on- an addict manipulating with
My boyfriend says he's never had anybody love him or worry about him like I do & that if he ever loses me he will go back to his old ways & it would be the end.

thats a BS statement. he had his old ways BEFORE you, has them WITH YOU, and could have them AFTER.

teresa, youve never had anyone in rehab, have been in the relationship for 3 months, hes been gone 3 days, and youre terrified.

does that read like somethings amiss with you?
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