Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
This is where the rubber meets the road for me. I will not be lied to in any relationship. If that means I am alone forever, so be it. I don't think it's wrong to expect to be told the truth.
Amen!
There are lots of addiction/codependent related reasons my marriage to AXH failed. But the most important one was the lack of trust. The lies.. oh the lies...I literally drove myself crazy because of his lies. You can't trust a liar and for the life of me I couldn't figure out how I was supposed to stay married to someone I couldn't trust. Such a brutally painful reality.