Welcome,
Glad you posted. Sobriety is about growing up, sobering up and working a program. Stopping the drinking is only a small part of the package.
I too recommend a lot of meetings, they do help for your sanity. For the last 10 months of my marriage, I went to 2 alanon, and 2 open AA meetings a week and then SR every night. I was very sick and needed a lot of support. Stick around, you will learn a ton. Hugs!!