Originally Posted by
PuzzledHeart 
That's like saying, Hey, I use to cheat on you every day, but now I only go to third base with strippers every other week. Progress!
[Insert eye roll here.]
This one made me laugh. Thank you for that
And thanks to all of you for responding. I've been to two Al-Anon meetings this week, and before each had a long talk with my sponsor, but this has been tough so I needed some more support. And y'all did not disappoint. I'm so glad I found this board
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Thank you for reminding me that I need to make sure self-care is at the top of my list, and that my feelings do not need to be justified. I know this is a hard time for my Alcoholic so I will let him figure his **** out and in the meantime will make sure I'm healthy and taking care of myself.
