Originally Posted by
cocokramer 
Oh I know.... I envision her kicking me out of her house. And then telling everyone what a rotten sponsor I was.
Or if I tell her after our meeting tomorrow night and her just shutting me out with righteous anger and hurt.
I know all about the punishment I'll receive.
That's why is rather do it via text.... to avoid the ugly confrontation that I know is bound to occur.
That's ok.... many in my group tell me that I'm a saint for dealing with her vitriol. Some of them have been on the other side of it as well... whenever she perceives real or imaginary abandonment.
Been there... done that.
Dealing with such individuals helped me to grow. But make no mistake I found it discomforting when they continued with the games. They knew what they were doing and they knew I didn't like it.
I might also suggest not to discuss the woman too much with others. Let the woman in question complain/gossip behind your back. Stay out of it.
I found dealing with toxic AA members a valuable learning experience and helpful in the "real world"