Originally Posted by
Timebuster 
It seems your fiancé has a character defect that needs serious attention. I can tell you from my experience, if he holds on to this defect of character most likely he will set himself up to use again.
His insecurities will awaken every time you seem out of character, and as much you would assure him, he will continue to doubt your faithfulness until he works on his defects of character.
As for you, don't worry about how he perceives you, or if he's judging you. Keep working your program of honesty. Honesty and vulnerability go hand in hand. I cannot do one without the other.
TB
Thanks for taking the time to comment. What you said virtually mirrors my sponsors’s view on it. You have a lot of good point and thank you for the compassionate response. At this moment, I’ve set aside my pride and told him, “I’m here for you when you’re ready to talk. What do you need from me?”