Originally Posted by
Hopedeferred 
Also in this category I'll put going to more physical meetings...I'm scared about committing to 90 in 90 as I'm very introverted and the thought of having to see dozens of new strangers that will ask too many questions every day of the week feels daunting. But I need to give it a try.
Uh, you know if you go to a meeting every day for 3 months straight, those strangers won't be strangers anymore, right?
Ask who questions? You? Well, you could make a friend or two and begin to get honest with people who have been where you are, understand, and can offer you help out of their own experiences.
Or you could just say, "I only came to listen to what others have to say today," and remain an outsider. Not the best approach, but hey, it's up to you how much help you're willing to get and receive.