Originally Posted by honeypig

pkkp, my XAH was much the same as your husband--not violent or angry, but extremely deceitful and sneaky. I could almost never tell for sure if he'd been drinking either.

If you'd like to specifically look up threads I started to see if anything resonates w/you, all you need to do is to put your cursor over my name, then left click. You will get a dropdown list. Choose "Show all threads started by honeypig." And you'll get a listing.

Many of those threads will be posts from daily readers such as "The Language of Letting Go." You may find those useful, or you may wish to skip over them and only look at the ones pertaining to my journey since coming to SR. I think you might find some help in what the wise members of SR had to say to me over the past few years.

Hope you keep reading and posting here. There IS a way forward.