Thank you I am missing her
I’ve not been here for a while! Thank you for your replies. I miss my sister and I keep thinking, what if that is my last contact with her, did my boundaries go too far? I know in my heart they didn’t and I was right, but it still nags at me. I was hoping I could get the sister relationship back and leave the rest out. I’ve extended an olive branch on more than one occasion, just think all I will ever get now is the call I dread! However I didn’t realise how much it was hurting me or my family until recently when I became overwhelmed and tearful and it reminded me of how I felt every day for months, boundaries are self care and they are important.