Maybe, think more in the direction of some activity where you and the others are on an equal footing.......Like, where you and others meet up to share/do some interest that you all have in common....
I like hearing that you are trying to reach out and make changes for yourself....that is actually how positive c hange comes about...
I need a new focus. I am seeing what comes out of the vacuum of stopping all the volunteering. I feel at an inbetween stage again...one of many long the way the past few years but I think it will pass as it always does and something will come along or I will think of something that's workable to do I'd enjoy. I've no idea yet tho lol