Originally Posted by
wildflower70 
This isn't my husband...it is actually a new relationship. And, of course he saw right away that I drink too much. But, he said that as long as "my drinking" benefited him (meaning I could do more to please him sexually) that it was fine. However, once I'm not pleasing him, I had better stop..OMG....I am so confused!
I dont understand whats to be confused about. If you were drinking when he said that, Id have thrown it in his face. What a horrible thing to say. Maybe a good way to shed some light on how to handle this for you would be this: Pretend you signed onto Soberrecovery.....and YOU read your post but it had been posted by someone else. What advice would you give ? Would you have read it and been disgusted with this guy ? Something to think about.....