some things from the bb on the 9th step
Usually, however, other people are involved. Therefore, we are not to be the hasty and foolish martyr who would needlessly sacrifice others to save himself from the alcoholic pit.
There may be some wrongs we can never fully right. We don't worry about them if we can honestly say to ourselves that we would right them if we could
We should be sensible, tactful, considerate and humble without being servile or scraping. As God's people we stand on our feet; we don't crawl before anyone.