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Old 01-06-2018, 05:49 AM
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Gottalife
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As a recovered alcoholic I won’t advise you on this, but I will share my experience on each point:

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People might be ambivalent because they may also see costs in stopping drinking. Common fears might include;
  • How wil I cope with bars, pubs and party's and not feeling like I'm being deprived Fine
  • What will I do if I can't go to pubs and bars, I don't want to be a hermit & have no social life. [COLOR="Lime"]I can go anywhere I please[COLOR="lime"]
  • Will I lose friends? Will people think I'm boring? How will I explain to friendsno, no and with honesty.
  • How will I cope with boredom and loneliness?There will not be enough hours in the day
  • Will life without drinking be a constant battle against cravings?No, the problem has been completely removed

That has been my experience.
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