Hi Glenl,
One of the more significant (and to be honest, shocking) revelations in my journey is that the universe isn't all that concerned about my life choices. The weight of those things was 99% in my head. Should you ever be queried, a simple "I did what I felt was best" is more than sufficient. As to those few for whom that response is inadequate: they are more concerned about stirring the pot than your well being... treat them as such.
You are exactly where you should be in this process. Trust that it will all work out as it should when it should.