This is what Mark Twain said, Steve: ... "The pursuit of happiness is a most ridiculous phrase. If you pursue happiness you’ll never find it. Happy is he who forgets what cannot be changed."
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Lao Tzu: ... "If you are depressed, you are living in the past.
If you are anxious you are living in the future.
If you are at peace you are living in the present."
And I know I'm the last one to talk; just thought I'd send you some very wise words...
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