Originally Posted by
STDragon 
Thanks Bim, I told her that every last drop goes down the drain at the end of the evening. If I had known I would've been ok given the time to prepare but that would still include pouring out the left overs.
Yeah, this, "I need to be prepared beforehand," thing ? I challenge you to think about why that is? Because you'll have more times when this happens.
If I reacted that way my first reaction would be to see it as, "My sanctuary has been compromised! My soulmate has betrayed me!"
<<~~~over-react much, bim?
You made it through with just a minor freakout. Well done. I think for me that would be my ego jumping up and saying, "HEY! No one asked permission for this horrible act!!"
...ask me how I know.
