doing better at the moment went to a sober cafe yesterday there are some groups and i have decided to go to NA instead of AA as i have a few issues today is my birthday just hanging out at home for the day no drinking anything stronger than coffee my husband is in denal of my problems he dont know am been struggiling for so long i dont know how to tell him i have to go there all the time good thing is on new years eve am going to the cafe for a party with my husband no drink no drugs also going to a friends house for Christmas but his friend might be drinking and am unsure if this friend will take no for answer