Thank you Challenger2013!
I keep telling myself that. His new thing is to post all of these sappy posts on FB about how much he loves his wif and blah blah blah... then tags me on them. If I don’t respond then I look like the a$$hole. I am tired of looking like I am the one that isn’t caring. I have been “caring and loving” 160 percent to him and our marriage for 18 years and yet I am still the one that looks like the jerk.
I was ready to leave him then he dumped the sobriety on me and I am trying to figure out my feelings and if him being sober is truly a game changer or not.
And yes! Thank you the manipulation is ALWAYS present so I just don’t talk to him much as I can’t deal with it any longer. My father is also an alcoholic and a MASTER at manipulation. So I am struggling so much between the two of them!
Ugh!
Thanks for the encouraging words and I will take a look at the stickies. Good luck with your situation as well!