I just want to make clear that I'm not desperately hanging on like a weirdo. He said he wanted to get back together last week. He was all over me, calling and chatting etc, Then he went cold and I know why. I've since stopped contact and walked away.
What baffled me was the hot and cold but since being here, I've learnt a lot about addiction and why an addict would choose a user over a non user despite all rationale. I am not hanging on lol.