Originally Posted by
Sarah84 
Thank you so much. I can understand tearing relationships apart, but for another woman?! I just can't fathom it. I never had issues in that respect with him. Thanks for the reply. I'm hoping I can learn a lot more here. Any further thoughts from anyone welcome. I'm in a serious state of depression here over it. It's like drugs are sending my life into a downward spiral and I do not use them. Seems so unfair.
Drugs and addiction are very powerful forces Sarah. In extreme cases people literally die because they choose their addiction over even their own lives. What's very important to remember is that while it's definitely unfair, none of it is your fault. And it's definitely a depressing thing....you'll find a lot of support here for that though.