Angrymarble...I am sending you the following link to our extensive library of excellent articles on alcoholism and the effects on the loved ones....I hope you will take time to read through them.
Knowledge is power.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...c-reading.html (Classic Reading)
The 3 Cs....you didn't CAUSE it/you can't CONTROL it/ and you CAN'T fix it.....
Only he can do that...it has to come within him...when and if he ever wants to get sober enough to do the hard work....
Anger is an automatic feeling that comes when a person feels that they are not getting what they are due or have been done wrong, in some way.....
It is a feeling....and all feelings are valid (how we manage them is another matter, of course).....