I have been through therapy years ago. My husband went a few times but stopped. My Church I can tell you is not supportive of divorce unless there is abuse involved and I did make it known to Pastor that we are getting a divorce. During my religion classes I did make it known what was going on at home. Every Sunday while leaving he'd shake my hand and ask me how my husband was. I finally got the courage to tell him he left. He asks me how I am doing now!