Yes, I have several videos, photos of him being out of it, also how he parked the car after he drove it under the influence. Of course my neighbour frantically calling me while I was in New York for business during the meeting asking me where I was, I have saved all the messages from her. I saved everything.
I have reached out to a lawyer and setup an appointment for Tuesday. She is a good friend of my best friend and definitely trust her guidance.
Thank you. I have been putting this off for YEARS, but my son is growing up and it is getting harder to hide my AH's addiction.