i am relapser until a few years ago i stopped drinking and it was the right time for me to do that some people do need extra support i will support anyone first time or 100000 th time you can stop and i say anyone who tries to stop even to attempt to stop and stops even for a day are brave they drink again but if they are braver to try to stop again your a recovery warriors fighting the drink and drugs monster he a pain in the ass and is relentless but keep at it you'll make it weaker and weaker and in the end you can kill it it just takes some people a little longer